Dad faces the reality and pain of post-abortion trauma

The following was submitted by a NoAp reader as a Comment to Suzanne Fortin’s column, “Late-Term Abortion Statistics Only Show the Tip of the Iceberg.” It is a very honest confession about the impact of killing one’s own innocent and vulnerable baby. It deserves as wide a reading as possible to encourage repentance and healing in others and to keep other men from contributing to the deaths of their own little children. Thank you very much to the writer for his honesty and thank you very much to Suzanne for writing the column that was the catalyst for such sharing. – Editor

Personally, knowing the sting of abortion in my life, I can speak from experience, indeed how painful it was and even still is. I can see in hind sight (not saying hind sight is 20/20) what lack of care on my part and selfish disinterest cost: lament, regret and the full knowing of a life taken can never be given back.

Before this event, I had no stance on abortion, cared very little about the subject, but of course thinking myself high minded and liberal about the matter. Post abortion, was a crash into reality about the matter, as I sought to make sense of the event, and events that had transpired in our lives. Looking full in the face of it all brought me to the conclusion, that I had aided, conspired and taken, premeditatedly the life of my daughter/son.

Indeed, this not a great back slapper for discussion around work or a coffee table. This is just one of the situations I faced in my coming home to a God that I knew very little of.

The Bible makes it very clear that all life is given of Him and that all is created equal in His sight. There are no mistakes in conception for He has preordained individual existence. Only man’s free will can destroy individual existence in its infancy and innocence, and call it a health issue. There is no difference in the right of one over the other in God’s eyes. Clearly though an adult is more able to defend themselves than one trapped in the womb. Not much ability to run anywhere when mom and dad find you an inconvenience and have slated you for death by scalpel or suction. The inconvenient truth (not to quote Al) here is that one cannot say they support equity, rights and/or fairness of the individual and state that the taking of human life in it’s very beginnings is not an inequity.

Public date: July 11th, 2009
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